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Clarissa Kristjansson's avatar

I was always someone who exercised. My mother was Swedish and here everyone seems to exercise. It was ingrained from childhood.

But during my busiest career year, juggling children, and my ageing mother exercise dropped to the bottom of my list. It was a health scare when living in Sydney that got me back on track 14 years ago.

It isn't easy and I have to motivate myself but through working with a great trainer I learnt about my own style - I like variety so pumping at the gym over and doesn't do it for me.

I mix Pilates, different forms of yoga, weight lifting, walking and boxing. More importantly if I miss a day - well it's the not end of the world. Mindset really does matter. And recognising that gardening, housework etc count as exercise.

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Penny Rabiger's avatar

I have always exercised, it makes me feel grounded and connected to my body and mind. I choose activities that make me connect with others as well in ways that are uplifting and fun - so running with someone, local ladies Back to Netball sessions, Azonto boxercise classes in the park, classes at the gym, walks and talks with friends. There are times when I just can't face it and drag myself but never regret it once I have done it. When I had small children and a full-time career I worked it around that by running and cycling my commute, or pushing the kids around the park in their buggy, or getting them to scoot or cycle to cheer me on.

Over time, as my body changes after children, or now in perimenopause, it has helped me to abandon some exercise and tailor a new regime that acknowledges my body as it evolves. Netball and running suddenly became too high impact and punishing for me in my 50s and I am exploring weight training, core strength and cardio things at the gym.

I love the feeling of exercised muscles and strength, I love the stretching and make sure I attend stretch classes at least once a week so it's not all about self-flagellation and body sculpting to fit some anti-feminist impossible body standard. It's about connection, pushing myself, but loving myself as well.

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